Redefining Masculinity Through Brotherhood

Empowering men through connection, accountability, and growth.

A Crisis of Connection

Men today are feeling more disconnected than ever. The world has stripped away the rituals, the brotherhood, and the mentors that once guided men into true strength. Without these, we’re left guessing—drifting through life, carrying a weight we rarely let anyone see, and unsure of what we’re here for.

If you feel stuck, burnt out, or like something’s missing, you’re not alone. But here’s the truth: Staying stuck is a choice. You can keep drifting—or you can step up, take control, and reclaim your life.

Our Mission: Helping Men Take Control

Brothr isn’t just another men’s group—it’s a call to action. This is where men take full responsibility for their choices, actions, and direction. Our mission is to empower men to build lives of integrity, purpose, and strength—not just for themselves, but for their families, communities, and future generations.

What Makes Brothr Different

Brothr isn’t about quick fixes or surface-level solutions. It’s for men who are done with excuses and ready to own their lives, forge real connections, and do the hard work that creates lasting transformation.

Here’s how we stand apart:

Honest Connection

A space for raw honesty, real conversations, and unwavering support.

True Accountability

A brotherhood that pushes you to step up, stay consistent, and follow through.

Purpose in Action

Experiences designed to drive clarity, growth, and real results.

Built on Experience

Guided by Stu Murray’s proven, no-BS approach to purposeful living.

Meet Stu Murray

I know what it feels like to be stuck—wanting more but feeling unsure how to get there. Years ago, I faced a choice: stay comfortable or break through to something real. I chose purpose over comfort, and it changed everything.

Brothr is built on the same clarity, accountability, and growth that transformed my life. I’ve been where you are, and I created this space because I know what’s possible when you take full ownership of who you are and where you’re headed.

My mission is simple: to guide men toward the lives they’re capable of living—lives grounded in integrity, courage, and connection. I don’t believe in easy fixes or shortcuts. I believe in showing up, doing the hard work, and leading yourself with intention every single day.

I created Brothr because I’m walking this path, and I know what’s possible when you take ownership of your life.

Real Stories. Real Results.

  • Testimonial - Ghislain Desroches

    Most Powerful Weekend I've Ever Experienced

    "This retreat brought powerful, vulnerable men together for deep inner work, embodying true brotherhood. The safe space allowed us to confront our traumas and support each other. It was the most powerful weekend I've ever experienced. We deserve to live authentically, and it's okay to ask for help. We don't have to figure it all out alone."

    - Ghislain Desroches

  • Testimonial - Marcel Cormier

    Most Transformative Weekend of My Life

    "The men’s retreat marked the most transformative weekend of my life. It has shifted my perspective, reshaped my interactions, and illuminated the path to further growth. Before the retreat, I aspired to live from the heart. Now, I inhabit that space fully, embracing each moment from within."

    - Marcel Cormier

  • Testimonial - Mikey Wasnidge

    Powerful Connections and Continued Support

    "The retreat helped me foster powerful connections with strong and caring men in a way I've never experienced before. Stu and Riley set the tone from the very beginning, challenging us to open up, hold space for one another, and make the most of our time together. I walked away with the answers I went in seeking, as well as a dozen other brothers who have continued to support and cheer me on"

    - Mikey Wasnidge

  • Testimonial - Tim Gibson

    Exceeded my Expectations

    "The retreat exceeded my expectations by providing clarity on my purpose and addressing blocks hindering my progress. It offered a haven to connect deeply with trustworthy men, whom I now call brothers. This safe space enabled vulnerability, where deep wounds surfaced and were addressed, propelling me forward on my path. Facing my past trauma has allowed me to accept others and myself more fully and authentically."

    - Tim Gibson

This Work is Fundamental

“My brothrs showed me how to fan my flames—where I was holding myself back, gripping old stories from childhood, adolescence, and young manhood.

More importantly, they held up a mirror, a bold light exposing the truth. They saw my potential long before I did, holding an empowered vision for me before I could grasp it myself.

I am unlearning the conditioning of movies, politics, and culture. No longer idolizing outdated models of masculinity, I am learning to love with strength, presence, and fire. Shedding the weight of limiting beliefs.

This work is confronting.
This work is painful.
This work is humbling.
This work is essential.

And through it all, it is held with nothing but brotherly love.”

- Riley Smith

Ready to Step Into Who You’re Meant to Be?

Brothr gives you the accountability, connection, and challenges to take ownership of your life and lead with purpose. Every retreat and conversation is designed to help you step into your power and build a life you’re proud of.

Join us, and start creating the life you’re here to live.